Marriage Planning??!! Say wat?

Haloha Everyone, a very warm welcome to all you married couples to-be! And ofcourse anyone and everyone dreaming of their big day and ofcourse finding love. (blah)

Let me give you a brief introduction to myself, BRIEF. i'm a girl, too tall, buck teeth and lo and behold! already found the love of my life and waiting to get married on the 7^th of May 2011 to my very own personalized Remington Steele-ish(google him) adorable partner in crime, my best-est-est-est friend everrrr and the man that simply rocks my world! (ok so those were just some of the positives!)

So yeah not all that informative but I thought I would only share the “relevant” details, along the way you’re bound to find out a thing or thousand about me anyway. Now let me tell you as to why I felt inspired enough to start this blog, well for starters, I’m getting married!!!! Hip hip hooray! And then there are the more sane and logical reasons such as I wanted to make a difference! Now don’t keep your hopes up so soon, I’m trying this out and really hope it makes it through! I’m a bit slow on the blog arena, you know, so umm, let’s see eh? 

So getting back to the “making a difference” part, well I noticed that there were not much Sri Lankan-ish blogs relating to weddings and ofcourse marriage, I so don’t want to discuss weddings without marriage because I believe the latter to be far more important than the former could ever be! Too serious? Okay okay, I get carried away sometimes!

I think every couple should plan a tasteful wedding, and a marvelous marriage, a grand wedding is ofcourse easy to plan in a sense, in comparison to a good marriage, reason being we think that it’s not THAT important, atleast most of us, including me(until sometime back).  Hardly anyone likes to associate contingency planning with a marriage! But the reality is that it is! In a world where beautiful roses and peonies are marketed as the must have to brighten your beautiful day, seldom do people talk about the hurt and pain and divorce statistics! We ignore it to an extent where failed marriages are a normalcy in life, like death. By no means am I implying that unless a marriage is planned, it’s bound to fail, all I am saying is that, if you have found someone you love, and have decided to spend the rest of your lives with them, a little investment in your marriage won’t hurt! 

I mean think about it, we invest so much money, hard work and time just to plan a day that’s filled with our loves ones, flowers, photographs and some occasions, BOOZE! 

So a bit of marriage planning here and there will only brighten the experience of a beautiful fun filled wedding!

Tata! Bbye! Happy Planning!